Who is the Sex Tourist?
Ireland, Finland, USA, Great Britain… Bonnie, Hannah, SophieFromFrance… 27, 33, 39 years old. The Sex Tourist masquerades as whoever she needs to be to make money for her passion:
TRAVEL!
I met The Sex Tourist in December 2023 at a brothel in San Francisco. It was the third of four times she had returned to San Francisco using the US Visa Waiver Program to travel back and forth from Europe to work in a converted Mission Bay upscale apartment/brothel.
She was being advertised as Sophie From France. She was also being advertised as 27 years old and graced with perfect blonde hair. All three of these were lies.
Sophie From France is the identity that The Sex Tourist used specifically in San Francisco because most of the escorts advertised in the Bay Area are Eastern European or from Latina American countries. It was a calculated choice by her and her handlers at the brothel.
In reality, The Sex Tourist was 39 years old and was Hungarian. She spoke French and several other languages because she emigrated to Switzerland, where the populace speaks four languages depending on where they live: French, German, Italian, and English. She used her proficiency with languages like Supergirl coming from her home planet to live under a yellow sun. It gave her a superpower that she didn't have back home.
If you've found this page, you could be one of her clients or someone who met her on the street, at the grocery store or at a Bryan Adams concert (Her Favorite singer). She could be called Hannah, Sophie, or Bonnie. She might tell you she's under 30. She might speak German and claim to be from Berlin.
Be aware. The Sex Tourist is whoever she needs to be in the moment. She seems very nice and cordial but there is a darker side to her life and she's fiercely protective of her sex tourism/travel life.
As a prostitute, she'll tell you she's young, in her twenties, and only doing what she calls her "secret garden life" as a prostitute a few times a year. That's not true. She's been a prostitute for at least 15 years. Traveling to various countries using her body as a permanent ATM. She conned me on two of her four visits to San Francisco, feeding me one lie after another to get me involved until I finally used a reverse lookup image search of one of her pictures online and found out who I was really dealing with. It's no surprise that a prostitute would adopt an identity to protect herself. That's understandable. But The Sex Tourist goes even further.
On this website, you will be offered a glimpse into this mystery woman and some of the stops in her life of world travel and sex. The Sex Tourist is not unique in being part of the society and a generation that have learned how to live off their looks. She is just a more extreme version who will say anything to protect the world that she has built. No matter how shaky the foundation of that world she has built really is.
In the few months that we conversed, I found her mood swings and quick temper to be disturbing. After her first visit to SF when she returned to Europe, we emailed for months, as we had grown closer and I had treated her respectfully. I had even spent $2000 dollars for a three hour date with her outside the brothel so she could spend a Saturday night outside of that sketchy place. This was all forgotten when I accidentally sent her an email, and my phone's autocomplete filled in a different woman's name. She got angry and didn't reply for months. I apologized to her six months later as I had only said hello and we had been emailing back and forth. She laughed it off as if it was nothing and she overreacted.
Days after we reconnected, I happened to see her ad online selling her services and learned that she had been back in San Francisco the entire week after we reconnected. She claimed that she hadn't told me about her return because she wasn't sure if I was still interested in the brothel. During this month-long period after this reconnection, she instructed me to not tell her handlers at the brothel that she was talking to me outside of the apartment.
With those rules in place, we became very close for a period of about a month. Emailing for hours at a time about music, movies, photography and vague discussions about our lives. Sometimes during her work hours when she was bored and needed some entertainment. When subjects came up that she found uncomfortable to talk about, The Sex Tourist would simply call her life "complicated" and leave it at that. But she did feel comfortable enough to tell me she was retiring and leaving prostitution behind. I never judged her for what she did because it would have been hypocritical. I told her that I would be her friend but that I didn't want to be her customer because she didn't seem proud of this work.
Days later, she emailed me to meet her in a park to talk after I sent her a thoughtful gift. Since her English was so poor, I didn't understand her directions and didn't meet her. One of the last communications she had with me can be seen below:
Like the mistake about her name, The Sex Tourist lashed out at me stating that I "disappointed" her by making her wait for hours in the park. She made no attempt to reach out to me during those "hours waiting in the park". She could have emailed me with ease to say she was waiting. There is no doubt in my mind that she never went to that park and didn't wait a minute for me to show up. This is one of many stories told about this mystery woman on this site.
I never found out her real name. Even in the communication above, she signed her name SOPHIE in big letters. A final fuck you after I had pushed her to tell me her real name multiple times." The Sex Tourist" seems strangely fitting to her passions and her life so that became her title.
I've included a photo of her below to show The Sex Tourist's true, untouched face and reveal many things in the pages on this site. Doxxing her on a few subjects. Be aware that The Sex Tourist never told her handlers at the brothel that she had been emailing me constantly for a month behind their backs.. The brothel ended up painting me as "extremely dangerous" and defaming me as a "stalker" on a website for prostitutes to report "bad men". I received multiple blackmail threats and they even contacted my three siblings back in Michigan via text message, spreading lies about me and my relationship with The Sex Tourist.
All of this retaliation against me was done with The Sex Tourist's consent. She is an unstable woman who leads a secret life that is important enough to allow someone she claimed to value to be harassed online and have his family back in Michigan harassed as well when these family members had no knowledge of these events.
As for her retirement, The Sex Tourist is now back in San Francisco in January 2026 and is once again being advertised as Sophie From France. Using the same photos and the same ads and at the same brothel.
The Sex Tourist – Dublin, Ireland - August 2024
